Now that house husband is a socially acceptable career, should you focus more on finding a successful woman than on trying to get a job?
Now that house husband is a socially acceptable career...
Most of us, including women (particularly women) will feel some sense of disgust reading all of this, and that's for a very real concrete biological reason.
If my memecoin takes off and I can make a solid living from LP fees, then I’m definitely going to make my wife go back to work while I stay home to be the house husband. Fucking sick of that lazy ungrateful bitch constantly whining about how hard it is to cook for the kids and keep the house clean.
well, good luck with that. I think rich divorcee is your best bet. I have a thing for older women and I have yet to meet one who wasnt living paycheck to paycheck. Ive even met some in their late 30s still living with parents
Most of us would feel the same disgust if the roles were reversed. A parasite is a parasite
ayn rand said it best: nothing is more contemptable than a useless male.
as a male, i have zero problems with his mindset
not at all, running the home is a perfectly acceptable job for a woman. for a man, it's laughable if that's all you can do.
No, it's because, as you said, we know humans have roles. A father works leads and provides, secures his family. A mother gives birth, takes care of kids, and the home. If there are two mothers in that house then the family is missing a father and his security and leadership. We all know that, and from that dissonance come up with various forms of cope, but it's real. I can only imagine how much she hates him lmao.
A woman is the only person who needs that home. A man can live can in an empty room with a chair. So that woman essentially contributes nothing other than her womb
Try harder to rationalise betatizing your man hood, and win over likes
I make 3x what my wife does and she's still a pain in my ass. You'll never make a woman happy her tastes will always adapt or evolve based on your income.
gives birth, takes care of kids, and the home
Again, all things only the woman wants in the first place. That's like saying the man contributes by drinking beer. That's just man doing whatever he wants it's not a real contribution. Make some money
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You're a man and you don't want a family? That isn't normal
At least in the first world thats not really necessary anymore. We outsourced security and leadership to the state. Your only role as a man now is to dick down as many women as possible
I don't want to take care of kids. A woman wants to do that and you're listing that as her great contribution. I don't need her to do it, go to work and pay the nanny you lazy twat, baking cookies for Timmy isn't a real job
Possibly, but it doesn't really matter. Can't defeat 1 million years of evolution. Women are still scared insecure little creatures that crave the strong male hand deep down even the one acting like a bossbabe.
Childcare is actually a lot of work, and it starts to get dangerous when you outsource it to someone who doesn't have a deep love/care connection to them, like a nanny or daycare. After all part of choosing your mate is choosing the mother of your children, she will shape them considerably.
My shitty wife demands to be a stay at home mom and then complains and whines non stop about how hard it is. The house is always a mess. I work from home she spends 90% of her time sitting on her ass. I hate her so much it’s unreal.
Yeah that means she's failing her role
It’s not that hard. There’s no real stress. Sure, crying screaming kids can be difficult, but it’s not like having a boss and having deadlines and having the whole family relying on you to stay gainfully employed. It’s not even in the same universe and I’m sick of this gay fucking world acting like staying home and taking care of kids is some incredibly difficult thing. IM SICK OF FUCKING HEARING IT. ITS NOT THAT HARD ITS A FUCKING JOKE. TAKING CARE OF KIDS YOU SUPPOSEDLY LOVE IS A JOY. YOU HAVE NO BOSS. YOU HAVE NO DEADLINES. YOU HAVE NO PROJECTS. YOU HAVE NO PERFORMANCE REVIEWS. THE FAMILY DOESNT STARVE IF YOU GET FIRED. FUCK OFF
why did you marry her? Im legitimately curious how people get into these situations
i have zero problems with his mindset
Ayn Rand was a woman.
psychotic woman complains men are lazy
Wow, so original!
Sounds like you've made some poor life choices.
You don't know how to deal with women.
Start doing some stuff at home. Cleaning, cooking. Don't give her any explanation, just do it and try to show some glee on doing it (don't make it feel as a chore).
When she approaches you to ask "What's going on" just say "Now it's done". And then get the fuck out.
You will rent a mall in her head and she will start behaving again.
calls himself ‘good little husband’
little
100% she doesn’t respect him.
Childcare is actually a lot of work
So is 100%ing Elden Ring. But it's not actual work because it's something you WANT to do and women WANT to take care of children. Doesn't count. Go work and be miserable like everyone else
wow wow wow wow, stop it right there chud, so you are implying that females are allowed to work and take men out of the workforce but at the same time there is a biological reason that would shame men for doing this? peak clown world.
this man has definitely never raised kids
neither has this guy
nyooo it's so hard
Then don't fucking do it. It's your choice. Stop whining about it
Yeah it's agonizing for me, as a man. 3-4 crazy little creatures running around begging for things and trying to find creative ways to kill themselves, it isn't hard in the sense of physical labor, moreso mental toll.
This is why women are naturally so neurotic and micromanaging. Literally kids lol, they need a helicopter.
I don't know. If I was a house nigga with disposable income from the wife, I'd be doing home improvement projects and work on far bigger ones instead of just small stuff on weekends. At least that's how I would use this opportunity.
The regular house maintenance stuff of cooking and cleaning isn't that time consuming.
I have 3 kids. It’s not hard. If they start driving you nuts take them to a fucking park. Yeah it’s hard if you want to sit on your fat lazy ass and stare at instagram all day.
I don’t know. I just settled I guess. She definitely hid her true colors until we were married. Although I’m honestly shocked at how bad she is. I didn’t think it would be this bad.
Take them out to a store or out to a park. Yeah it’s fucking awful to just sit at home with the kids. Get off your faggot lazy ass and go do something
how often did you have sex before you got married vs. after vs. now?
She definitely hid her true colors until we were married.
Care to elaborate on the differences before & after for the single anons out there (me)?
She's definitely going to cheat on you.
All you basement dwellers could learn a thing or two from this
might have worked years ago, if you did that now she would probably just keep scrolling her phone and not even notice
I wish I was a house husband with an absolute dominatrix that pegs me hard every night when she comes back home from work
im not
its hard in the sense of relentless time commitment. not that anything requires mental or physical labor.
take them to a place where you have to supervise them 3x as hard
uhhhh ok lol
I don't think some people realize that time commitment itself can be the difficult thing. It's not like it's laborious to sit there and supervise, more like mentally agonizing as it feels unproductive.
For women it doesn't feel unproductive. They were built for it. They like a day full of petty nonsense and play. It really is remarkable how we went and uprooted all of them from their place in the home to go be miserable pushing paper around in corporate settings. Even there they try to turn it into a daycare like that adopted beaver trying to build a dam in his house from toys.
The house-into-a-home meme is true, anon
The family unit is absolutely essential. If you reproduce without first finding your sole-mate, you're a part of the problem. Most men could impregnate a dozen worthless women, but if you choose to do so you should be castrated without anesthesia.
She didn't say all men were contemptible, she said useless ones were. Men aren't born with innate value, women are. Women hold the keys to the kingdom by virtue of being the limiting reagent in reproduction. Men are born worthless and must prove otherwise if they want to reproduce (or do anything, for that matter). This dynamic is the source of every single difference between men and women.
Men aren't born with innate value, women are. Women hold the keys to the kingdom by virtue of being the limiting reagent in reproduction
This is no longer true since our society doesnt value reproduction. Womens "value" now comes from withholding sex from me, but this is an artificial construct.
from men*
although "from me" is also accurate LOL
All the “validation” you get is two-faced and half-hearted. Behind your back people mock you. Your parents are disgusted and ashamed of you, your “friends” laugh at you behind closed doors.
The cuck husband FEARS the WIFE BVLL
That's the default state for the average chudcel here. Or what you think people respect a man in his 20s and above without a significant other?
You need to rent an office away from home, stop being such a faggot.
you can, but you're going to have to do it the same women have.
you'll need to be worthy of being a trophy husband.
she'll probably be older and less hot.
i have 2 friends that went this route. one married ultra-rich (something with real estate) and the other married doctor-rich.
to each their own. i like being more with someone who is my peer aesthetically and professionally.
Nobody wants to take care of kids, it’s time consuming and retarded. People just like the idea of having kids because it’s evolutionary and you will need someone to wipe your ass when you’re old who won’t neglect or kill you out of obligation
Chuds always tell on themselves
Literally the only reason women have any power whatsoever is because men have ceded that power to women.
What women don't understand is that men have all the power. Women wanted to be "equal", but they cannot be. Because in order to be "equal", they themselves would have to be capable of carrying the torch entirely by themselves, but they cannot.
All men have to do is nothing at all and women will be slapped with reality soon enough. The whole of society is held up by men, all men have to do is stop holding it up. Sooner or later it will decay to a point that all those "girl bosses" won't want to be the boss lady on top of a telephone pole in the hail.
Just check out guys, which future is worse? Living in a van for a few months or a couple years or living the rest of your life with a contentions lady who will steal half your net worth should you have something like an opinion?
Go live in a van, ignore women, they'll eventually be groveling at your feet begging you to dig a trench so their poop isn't backed up into their walls. They'll be begging to suck your dig like prostitutes you don't have to pay. Just wait, you cannot believe the future coming for you if you can just get over yourself long enough to do nothing.